What's your most vivid childhood memory?
I arrived on September 28, 1957 tipping the scales at 9 pounds, 8 ounces! When my parents brought me home and introduced me to Julie, my 13-month old sister, Julie bent over to presumably kiss me on the cheek, but bit me on the nose instead!
Our mother swore that neither Julie nor I grew hair until we were three. She said she had to tape bows to our little bald heads so that people would know we were girls. When mine finally did grow in my head was covered with thick tight curls. My family used to say to me, ‘There was a little girl, who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead. When she was good she was very, very good. But when she was bad she was horrid!' And that's how it all began ...
I liked school, but had to work at it - my worst subject was math, my favorite subjects were spelling, reading and science. Fifth grade was by far my favorite school year. I adored my teacher, Mrs. Kline - she gifted me with the book ‘Swiss Family Robinson'. During this time I was deciding between becoming a magician or a mad scientist - I was fascinated with both.
My sister Julie and I grew up with a great love for animals. Our family was very fond of camping, which we did on a regular basis. Our dad took us panning for gold and to Eagle's Peak to look for bats (not baseball, but the flying type). To my knowledge we were the only kids who took rattlesnake rattles and tarantellas to school for show and tell.
When we lived in Del Dios we played outside until we were exhausted - going places that were absolutely forbidden. These included the witch's house. She had a large black cauldron and bridge in her front yard. And of course there was riding a horse named Trixie without permission.
One time while fishing in Idyllwild Julie cast her line and the hook got caught in my ear. My father removed it with a pair of needle-nose pliers. Needless to day, that resulted in a tetanus shot for me.
It was rare that Julie did something wrong on purpose. As such, I decided it was high time that she got in trouble for something, so I engraved her initials into the dining room table - thinking my parents would think that she had done it - after all it was her initials. My plan backfired and I was in more trouble than ever!
My mother was a great one for the holidays - mailing cards, baking, and decorating well in advance of its arrival because she just couldn't wait. One of my favorite holidays was the year our parents surprised us with bicycles for Christmas. Then again, there was the year we got white go-go boots, sunglasses, and three-tiered bell bottoms!
In addition to being the only family I knew who had a fallout shelter in their back yard, some of my other odd remembrances include:
- Julie shellacking my teeth
- Having my stomach pumped because I ate a box of Exlax
- Drag racing out on Jesmond Dene
- Being part of a quartette called the Pastel Lollipops
- Smoking cigarette butts I found in the gutter
- Julie and I getting shot at in Elfin Forest
- And then of course, there was running away from home ...

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you ran away from home?
Yes ma'am. I ran away from home when I was 15 years old.
Whoa… pants on fire! I will say from your stories about you are a woman with a spark that has been shining bright for many, many years. We really are kindred spirits… though I waited to the ripe age of 17 to leave home:)
Terrill -
I knew there was a glue that bonded us, but I couldn't quite put my finger on just exactly what it was. However, now that you've turned around I see it clearly …
… the seats on both of our jeans are charred and smoking!
Sounds fun, then there was the scrumping, tree climbing roller skating, I was a tomboy too, usually found getting up to mischief with the lads. lol I drew the line at letting snails crawl down my tongue as one young lad did!!!
That makes me miss my sister so much, she was 16 months younger, and a better co-conspirator I've never had. Of course, she would have sold me for nickle on any given day, I would have sold her on credit. Best friend and worst critic, borrower of brand new panty hose ( without a word), staunch defender, always there whether you wanted her to be or not. You've reopened a box of memories that I'll play with for days. Thanks.
” … she would have sold me for nickle on any given day, I would have sold her on credit.”
Oh my gosh, Sandi - that made me LAUGH OUT LOUD!
So much fun. Last night I watched The Spirit of the Beehive (1973 Spanish film in The Criterion Collection) which fits so well with sisters, imagination and getting in trouble. This beautiful film “is a bewitching portrait of a child's haunted inner life and one of the most visually arresting movies ever made.”
I thought of your post Laurie and wanted to share.
Terrill -
Thank you for the recommendation. On the outside chance that they might have it, I checked with our library. You'll never believe it - they can get it from a cooperative library and I should have it in-hand within two-weeks!
Here is the description of what was available on the library's website: ”Shortly after the Spanish civil war, a six-year-old girl attends a traveling movie show of Frankenstein and becomes haunted by her memory of it.”
Does this sound like I ordered the correct movie? I'll let you know my thoughts once I view it.
Yes that is the right one! To warn you in advance - it is NOT an action movie. And unless you understand Spanish it means reading subtitles. The movie is beautiful and engaging - if you are like me you will hardly notice.
Because I live on an island with about 1000 people year round, we order our movies through Zip . With our package we can have three movies out at a time. No late charges and when we are done watching them we just slip them into the prepaid envelop and drop them in the mail box. We have about 100 movies pre-selected and they just send us something from our list. We can get almost anything! The only challenge is that we don't know what is going to arrive. Seems like a small issue when whatever comes is something that we have already chosen.
Terrill -
Have you been to Mackinac Island? Your island sounds similar to that one with only a couple of hundred 'year-rounders.' We went there two autumns ago to do 'leaf peeping' - it was stunning.
A s-l-o-w movie is perfectly fine with me. And we enjoy foreign films so subtitles are no problem. Thank you again for the recommendation.